The 12 Step Program
By Patrick Mclemore
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The 12 Step program is the most popular, and possibly the most misunderstood, self help program in the
world.
With a beginning in the late
1930's, it was developed by two alcoholics who were looking for a solution to their alcohol problem.
Since then, the 12 Step program has flourished into over 1300 programs all around the world.
Nearly every addiction, obsession, physical or mental disorder, defect, disability, disease, and emotion has a
12 step self help program of some sort to support it.
It may seem excessive but in actuality, the vast numbers of groups reveals the true success of the 12 Step
program. It can be applied to virtually any area of life, helping people of all races, colors and creeds.
You may be asking yourself: What are the 12 Steps and how do they help to combat addiction? Are they religious
programs? How much do they cost? Do they really work?
All of these are valid questions. Nearly every person currently apart of a 12 Step program has probably asked a
few of these questions themselves at one time or another. It is normal to be apprehensive, especially if you have
little to no experience with a program of this nature.
We all have seen the movie stars, rock stars, politicians and many others battle drug and alcohol addictions, go
through the motions of rehab and then a 12 step program only to eventually fall back into their old behaviors
again.
| Millions of Americans misuse or are dependent on alcohol or drugs. Most of them
have families who suffer the consequences, often serious, of living with this illness. If there
is alcohol or drug dependence in your family, remember you are not alone. |
The trade papers, gossip columns, magazines and
celebrity television and internet sites expose in great detail the demise of these poor souls. These negatives
are good for magazine sales and website hits but bad for the 12 step program. It gives false evidence that the
12 step program doesn't work.
What these gossip venues don't talk about are the ten, twenty or hundred private successes for every one, very
public, failure. And even then, a slip or relapse doesn't necessarily mean absolute failure but possibly only a
temporary setback for the individual affected.
| Not only is alcoholism a widespread disease that directly or indirectly leads to
premature death, but that death from alcoholism is preventable. Think about this for a
moment. Millions upon millions of people throughout the world suffer from the unhealthy
and devastating effects of alcoholism. And all of this suffering, pain, and destruction
is preventable. Wake up people who drink excessively but who are not yet alcohol
dependent. You can prevent yourself from a life of addiction if you get professional
treatment immediately! |
Leaving controversy and debate aside, let's talk more about the 12 step program and answer some common
questions. The twelve steps are a process of inner growth, never completed, but lived one day at a time. There is
no great mystery to the steps, just a set of simple principles that are practiced daily to achieve the desired
result: freedom from (whatever ails you here).
Obviously, there are twelve of them and depending on which support group you attend; the group objective may be
different (freedom from alcohol and/or drugs, life issues, etc.) but the process is relatively the same.
| Youth drug and alcohol use cuts across all ethnic, geographic, and socioeconomic
lines. Youth experience pressure to use alcohol, tobacco, and illegal drugs at increasingly
early ages. In fact, in one survey, adolescents ages 12 to 17 named drugs—along with social and
academic pressures—as the most important problem they face. |
Taking one step at a time, usually at ones own pace, an inner change gradually takes place that relieves the
sufferer where nothing else could. But attendance at a few meetings won't change your life forever.
It is not a graduation program where certificates of completion are handed out. It is not a cure. It is not a
religious program that requires a previous understanding of the bible, the Koran, or any other holy book. There are
no requirements, dues or fees. There are no leaders, C.E.O.'s or owners.
| Families with alcohol and drug problems usually have high levels of stress and
confusion. High stress family environments are a risk factor for early and dangerous substance
use, as well as mental and physical health problems. |
It is completely self supporting by volunteered donations only. The 12 Step program doesn't demand that you
believe in anything. All it asks is that you keep an open mind. That's it.
Overall, the 12 Step program is a method of substitution that can help anyone who is willing to be helped. It
has helped millions of people recover from conditions that otherwise could have possibly resulted in their
deaths.
| Among workers in the United States, 52.5 million (46.0 percent) indicated that
they would be more likely to work for an employer who performs drug or alcohol tests before
hiring, and an additional 56.2 million (49.1 percent) workers reported that prehire testing
would not influence their decision to work for an employer. Only 5.6 million (4.9 percent)
workers indicated that they would be less likely to work for an employer who conducts prehire
drug testing. |

| Substance abuse research shows that by the time children enter preschool, most
of them have seen their parents and/or other adults drinking alcohol either in person, in the
media, or both. Due to the fact that today's children are exposed to drinking and
drinking-related activities such as alcohol advertisements, drinking in TV programs and in the
movies as early as elementary school, after a child reaches his or her 5th birthday, it is
never too early to start talking with your children about drinking and the negative effects
that excessive, abusive, and irresponsible drinking can lead to. |
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